October always feels like a turning point here in Brooklyn. Cooler air blows leaves around and new routines blow us in circles.
For parents of neurodivergent kids, this time of year can also bring sensory overwhelm and big feelings (ours and theirs).
In Case You Missed This Change:
On the last Sunday of each month, you’ll find a roundup of the links I’ve been loving, plus all the posts from the past few weeks, in case you missed one. This is one way I can keep our community both supportive and sustainable.
This month’s roundup offers resources on advocacy, self-care, boundaries, and celebrating Halloween in ways that actually work for your family.
Our family has finally settled into a rhythm of sorts…
Peanut graduated from puppy school. Ocean took him for a walk this morning, then retreated back to his cave. John’s still hobbling admirably forward, doing what he can. And I’m finding my footing in my new job, slowly but surely.
Does Your Family Celebrate Halloween?
Here are two relatable reads from other writers, plus two from our archives:
A Halloween Party (That Didn’t Need to Be Perfect) by The Workspace for Children
Remember, This Spooky Season, That It’s Okay If Your Neurodivergent Child… by Neurodivergent Parenting
October’s Posts, Inspired By The Autism Mums:
Why Nervous System Regulation Matters for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids
Nervous System Regulation for Autism Parents
More Links For You
“Holding the Line—with Our Kids, Ourselves, and Everyone Else”
Essays on thoughtful discipline, healthy boundaries, and the messy, worthwhile work of staying connected. (My essay is featured in this one!)“Autism experts question HHS statements on Tylenol, leucovorin,” by The Transmitter.
“Do ‘Deeply Feeling Kids’ Really Exist?” by E.J. Dickson. My friend Ina was featured in this controversial story on the intersection of neurodivergence and Dr. Becky’s parenting advice. Ina’s coming on Substack LIVE to talk about it on Monday November 3. I’m working on a response for next week’s post.
A kinder future for our kids begins with kindness toward ourselves.
Thank you for the amazing links - really love your post "If only I'd known this when he was younger" alongside "the most important parenting strategy" by one tired mother - so so helpful to be reminded that's it's never too late to repair!