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Lolly Martyn's avatar

I relate so much to this struggle. My son begged for this dog which is dog #2. So much work. Thank you for sharing and I’ll look at that tool in her linked article!

Kate Lynch's avatar

Lolly, yes! That’s why I was resistant for so many years! One day, I just caved.

Maybe I was looking for a new baby to love now that Ocean’s a teenager. Maybe I could tell how much my husband wanted a dog, and since he has been struggling so much with his health I didn’t want to deny him. Maybe I just wasn’t thinking. Intuition took over in that decision, and now we’re a family of four.

How many in your family?

How old is your son?

Is having 2 dogs much harder than one?

Lolly Martyn's avatar

I hear you. It’s a decision in a brief moment that lasts decades. I sometimes regret dog #2 but he did need a home and I try to

come back to that in my dark moments! It is hard with these 2 dogs. I suspect with couch dogs it would not be. Your peanut is so cute. How old is he now?

Kathleen Griffin's avatar

I totally get this!!! We have a nearly 2 year old Mini

bernedoodle - who is amazing … she is ‘my daughters dog’ 😂🤣😂

Libby chose my daughter … we all love her AND I do ‘all the things’ for Libby.

Lucky for me, our cutie sleeps with me and loves to be rubbed and loved on a lot! She is sweet and smart and thankfully we have a neighbor dog who is a month younger than Libby, he’s her bff - and we won the neighbor lottery so those two are able to run back and forth between both homes - like the feral kids we were running the neighborhood back in ‘the day’ !!

Grateful the dogs choose to spend time snuggling at the neighbors … and sometimes they are over here!

Libby does go with my girl on the weekend to her dads - and I really miss the dogs presence when they’re gone Altho it is nice to not have the responsibility!

Lolly Martyn's avatar

Haha! It feels good to commiserate and know I’m not the only one! 😆

Kate Lynch's avatar

He’s just 3 months.

Eliza Factor's avatar

Oh…difficult, yes, but damn photogenic :)

Kate Lynch's avatar

He sure is! And his behavior is improving every day. :D